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the weather outside is weather

Lately, I've found myself indulging in fifteen minute walks. I used to take these walks all the time when we had Shadow, but they got left by the wayside when we had to put him to sleep. It felt weird taking walks solo, and I honestly become intimidated by all those runners around my neighbourhood who would jog in freezing weather in workout gear while I trudge through the snow in ten layers of clothing. 

In the past two weeks, though, I've kind of ignored the runners and just focused on one step in front of the other, clearing my head, and enjoying being outside even if the weather outside is weather (oh Paul Rudd, how I love thee in Forgetting Sarah Marshall ... and now that I'm starting How I Met Your Mother I'm rediscovering Jason Segel, too). 

These little walks make me feel kiddish again and bring me back to those years where I would crave being outside; even before I had neighbourhood friends, I would pretend to be an athlete named "Aimee" (which was my favourite name in the world) on my rollerblades or Tony Hawk's protege on a skateboard, whizzing around the block. Those were the days where you would skin your knee and cry, but then admire the battle wound. 

As the years go by, it's almost as if those moments get lost in disarray and replaced by everything needing to have a purpose; that voice in my head would keep saying, "What's the point of going outside for a walk when there's so many other things to do on your to-do list?" In defense, I respond, "Why can't you just enjoy something simply because you enjoy it?" 

When I see bloggers like Krissy become suddenly inspired to write a novel, seeing Kat's determination to tackle her 2012 goals, Kym's awesomeness in creating a clothing line and having it soar, seeing Tiara's art on a pendant, seeing my sister Margarita (who just had her birthday - Happy Birthday!) looking absolutely fab as a soon-to-be mom of two children, and looking at Katy's set of rules inspires me to indulge in those things that make me happy, follow my dreams, and constantly better myself

And fortunately, I have a few supporters.

Even though I loved sitting in the theatre watching Sherlock Holmes 2 and The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo (both phenomenal films, by the way), two of my favourite memories from these past two weeks were walking around the bayfront with a friend when the skating rink was a bit too watery followed by checking out a local coffee shop and, just yesterday, going on a random walk with The Boy. We had planned on an all-out road trip but instead hit up a local hiking area with a waterfall across the street and enjoyed looking at bunny tracks and amusing ourselves by seeing which parts of a lake were frozen or not.

Walking in a winter wonderland ...

Being a pair of "hoodlums" (and calling him Pippi Longstocking because of the strings).

Moments like taking a little stroll really bring about those simple smiles for me; and I really want to make this year one of indulging in those simple smiles. 

What are those simple things that make you happy?
What's one thing you've lost sight of but want to rediscover?

Hope you had a great weekend & have a happy start to your week :) 

btemplates

14 comments:

Carlito86 said...

'Being a pair of hoodlums' hahaha <3

Those pictures look gorgeous xxx

Anonymous said...

love this post and great pics.

since last year, i've made it a goal to just do things that make me happy... and you've already read about the one thing i want to rediscover (getting fit again).

thanks for the shout-out too :)

Bree said...

That first picture is so pretty. I'm on season 2 of HIMYM and Marshall is so freakin' adorable. I'm talking to Dyl on gchat right now, and he literally just said about 3 minutes ago, "I wish we had a full day coming up we could devote to HIMYM!" Such a good show.

Nashe^ said...

An athlete named "Aimee"... haha!
Aaahh I love walks! Whenever we're in the commercial district my friend and I would choose to walk the long way anywhere instead of taking a bus, just to see the lights and stuff. :)

Rhianne said...

I think I've lost sight of more than one thing when you think about it like that - going outside, enjoying staying in bed rather than feeling the need to get up and do things...

Enjoying the little things is what its all about though and your walks are a great idea :) keep it up!

Sara said...

Winning at scrabble makes me happy. And solitary walks. I love walking alone, and now that I have changed jobs, I work on a little island called Zamalek, and it's so pretty. (and I can go for walks during my break)

I can also certainly assure you that if you dream hard enough and work on your dreams, then all you can dream of, you can achieve :)

erika sorocco said...

The two of you are so adorable, Nikolett! I love the fact that you are indulging in short walks - it truly is the simple things. :)

malislatkis said...

me and you have that in common.. I can't even go to yoga because i feel silly about how ridiculous I look and everyone else is "so good" - I'm happy you took your first steps out there with a goal in mind... xo. I know how hard it can be.

Lisa Lisa Lisa said...

I love walks. When there isn't so much snow I like to walk home from work for lunch. It gives me time to clear my head and focus on the rest of the day!

Jaime @ laviejaime said...

adore jason segal...i just saw the muppets. so cute! Love these photos.

krissy ♥ said...

Heyyyy Aimee :)

These days, pretty nail polish colors, lipsticks, and stickers for my planner make me happy ♥

Glee said...

Awesome photos, I adore the lake. I myself bundle up a lot when I have to walk outdoor, it´s just freezing. I and hubby goe to the fitness gym so we run indoor. :)

Unknown said...

Sigh, i know what you mean!!! For W and I, when we were first dating, we would often go for walks and just go places for no particular reason. Now it's often replaced by the "need to do" things like chores at home, business stuff, or too tired to do anything. I would love to get back to that... well.. it doesn't help though that it's been raining everyday!! =S

P.S - the pippi longstocking comment made me laugh. :P

P.P.S - i haven't forgotten about emailing you re: herro website

P.P.P.S - when are you coming back here? :)

BonBon Rose Girls Kristin said...

Those photos are gorgeous...They make me want to play outside! Oh and I'm totally jealous of your weather!